"i'm like an old beat up car..."

Some things simply make me CRINGE... WHITE HEELS, HIGH SCHOOL HAIR, and battle stricken FLIP-FLOPS... but at the absolute top of that list has to be self-proclaimed "high maintenance" girls!!!

I've been trying to understand for years why anyone would EVER label themselves as such??? It's like putting an oil change sticker on your forehead!!! NOT exactly a selling point ladies!!! Think about what you're really saying... (((read more)))

♥...

i LOVE everything about this movie... the story, the SOUNDTRACK, JH<3, and its prob the only role i'll EVER really like Kirsten Dunst in... but this quote, is what puts it at the top of my list!!!

"We felt the imprisonment of being a girl, the way it made your mind active and dreamy, and how you ended up knowing which colors went together. We knew that the girls were really women in disguise. That they understood love and even death, and that our job was merely to create the noise that seemed to fascinate them. we knew that they knew everything about us and that we couldn't fathom them at all."

i see you reading...

so feel free to comment!!! there is no need for ZIPPED LIPS!!!

and if you're weird about it you can even comment anonymously ;)

keep CALM, CINDY on (?)

what would you say is the most important day of the week??? For me i would have to say that it's FRIDAY!!! People thank GOD for it, plan for the next one before its even over, and start longing for it as soon as stupid sh*tty monday comes around!!! Friday's are great, but THIS FRIDAY will be one of the best!!! "why," you ask??? because its my best*best, CINDY Q's BDAY!!!

Even tho i like to spend a majority of my time telling her how much i hate her the truth is... I love her!!! She's ah-may-zing!!!  Being her best*pal is easy because she keeps it simple... she does what she wants when she wants to, she's got her sh*t together, and her world doesn't revolve around gossip!!! But the thing i LOVE about her most is something i realized about her our senior year of high school... it also happens to be my favorite story to tell about her so let's get to it...

so you know...

I've noticed that on most blogs people like to write an "about me." I was considering doing that at one point, but I don't know that me describing myself to you is going to necessarily paint a legit picture of me.  So I've decided to just let you form you're own opinion from my posts and my writings. Besides, lets be honest... you were probably gonna do that regardless ;)

 i do feel however, that there are a few "note worthy" things i can put out there about myself.  So lets begin...

there is a double standard...act accordingly!!!

once you become a parent there is something that is no longer up for speculation...

THE EXISTENCE OF YOU'RE SEX LIFE!!!

i've been in a relationship for YEARS, and sure you could make the assumption that i was having sex but until i became a mom, how did you really know??? YOU DIDN'T!!! 

i mean, unless you go busting a Kim K. + Ray J, or bump uglies w/ someone who has no problem putting your business out there, then no one REALLY knows... or knew, prior to you becoming a parent. (((if you are one)))

And in reality, who's business is it anyway???

re-post this (((middle finger raised)))

i'm gonna pre-fix this post by saying;
I don't always agree w/ what they're fighting for, but i support our troops 100%.
Cancer is no joke and I desperately hope a cure is found soon.
and while I am not the most active person in my religious community I do have a relationship w/ GOD.

WITH THAT BEING SAID...

WATCH IT!!!

I knew there was something i was going to ♥ about Nicholas Swardson when i saw "Blades of Glory," and he said "I totally want to cut off your skin and wear it to my birthday... It's coming up."  

And after watching his stand up last night, I might just start a fan club!!!

So if you're looking for a laugh... don't be a douche, WATCH THIS!!!

i stand by my statement!!!

please, fill in the blank...

1. (GUYS) When i see a girl wearing ________, i have to ask for her number.

2. (GIRLS) When i wanna get a guys attention i put on ________.

3. (GIRLS) When i wear ________ i just ooze confidence.

Seriously, don't read on until you have your answers!!!

you remind me of a Cynthia...

sticks and stones break bones...
and word on the streets is chains and whips excite excite rhianna...
but one thing is for sure, words can never hurt you!!!

NEVER... Never EVER!!! At least not in the physical sense. But lets keep it real, they can be upsetting.  it all depends tho. what context was the word used in??? Did your actions justify the name call??? who said it???

if "tammy talk sh*t" hit you with the b*werd because you forgot to return her favorite pen, then we shouldn't have to go putting you on suicide watch-Tammy's just being a brat!!! but a tear shed may be in order if you're dad who also happens to be your "hero" just called you a slut for wearing a lipstick AND proceeded to disown you!!! (((lol, all dramatic))) what i'm getting at is, why let someone's words fucc up your day??? really, WHY???

i've been called a b*tch before. and if i was genuinely acting like one i'd be like "hey, you're right... what's your fuccin point?" if i wasn't acting like one at all i'd be like "calm down... DRAMATIC!!!" and go on about my business.  Words don't have any meaning until you buy into them.

For example...

MAYBE, you shouldn't have posted that...

i remember occasionally running into old classmates from high school and thinking "that was that quiet girl from english" or "he's the guy who always let me borrow a pen..." but ever since Facebook came into my life, that is no longer the case!!!

Its crazy what happens once a person becomes your "friend" via social networking.  You now know EH-VUH-RE-TTTHHHAAANNGG about people who you used to have nothing more then causal conversation w/.  Sh*t, maybe you never even spoke a word to them... MAYBE you just had a class w/ them.  Either way I find myself feeling like I know way too much about people I would usually know nothing about!!! One of these days i'm gonna slip up and be like "girl, why are you out w/ your first baby daddy, isn't you're new baby daddy at home waiting for you and his bun in the oven??? or did you guys call it quits for the 7th time this week???" I mean, is it even ok form me to bring up something I read that they posted, or is it only ok to talk about it once they actually tell you about it???

((((UUUUUHHHHGGGGG!!!))) Let me HELP YOU, GET IT TOGETHER!!!